If you’re a family member or an adult child caring for a senior parent, you understand it’s a complex relationship. The roles you traditionally held are reversed. Now that you’re in the position of providing senior care, it’s up to you to explain the doctor’s instructions and make sure your parents are taking their medications. You’re the teacher to the person who once taught you.
The caregiver role can be incredibly stressful but try to remember that while you are thrust into a new role, so are they. To them, it probably feels like only yesterday they could jump into their car to run errands or hop on a flight to explore another country. Now, not only is their world a lot smaller, they may be forced to navigate it with a walker or scooter. But it’s important to remember, they are still the same people inside, even if their mobility and level of independence have changed. Respectful Senior Care Strategies As a quality home care agency, Visiting Angels Newton/Canton understands that family caregivers play an integral role in keeping their loved ones safe and happy at home. We also know that this role comes with a lot of stress. Below, we have put together a list of senior care strategies that can help family caregivers respectfully communicate, engage, and care for their loved ones. Subtly Assist Them Many seniors want to feel as independent as possible. Even though they may need assistance stepping off a curb, they don’t want to feel dependent. Those are the times to subtly assist. You can casually offer help with a comment like, “Wow, this curb looks slippery, let’s hang onto one another!” By inserting yourself into the situation, they won’t feel as needy. Listen to Them The world spins quickly for elderly people, and they may not be current with trending topics. They may instead wish to regale you with tales from their younger years. Let them. You may know the stories by heart, but if sharing them gives your loved one joy, then that’s all that matters. Defer to Them Over a holiday or family dinner, it’s easy for seniors to get lost in the conversations whizzing around them. Take opportunities to ask them what they think or encourage them to share a story about the topics being discussed. Giving them center stage can help to make them still feel connected to the family and the world around them. Gift of Your Time Time is a precious commodity, so give them quality time. You may have spent several hours on a Tuesday going to and from a doctor’s appointment. But, if possible, make a plan to pick up dinner another night that week and bring it over so you can enjoy a movie together. Their days are often full of maintenance-type, medical-driven tasks, so gifting your time to make new memories is priceless. Empathize with Your Senior Picture yourself in 40 years. Would you want to be treated differently just because you’re wearing a sweater or carrying a cane? Try to relate to what this new chapter is like for them. We know you want the best for your loved one, but we also understand that providing elder care is challenging with a busy life. If you’re feeling overwhelmed, now is a good time to ask for help. Visiting Angels Newton/Canton is here to support you and your family with senior home care services. We can provide care in a way that makes sense for your family and your needs. Our professional in-home caregivers can handle personal care and household tasks, like showering, dressing and preparing meals, so you can focus on spending quality time together and building lasting memories. Together with your family, we will give your loved one all the respect and love they deserve. About Visiting Angels Newton/Canton Visiting Angels Newton/Canton MA is an award-winning home care agency that has been providing quality in-home care for the elderly and people with disabilities for over eighteen years. Countless families have benefited from our respite home care, dementia and Alzheimer’s care, companionship service, live-in and 24-hour senior care, transitional aid, and elder home care services in Norwood, Westwood, Dedham, Needham, Newton, Boston’s (Upper) Back Bay, Brookline, Canton, Dedham, Hyde Park, Jamaica Plain, Natick, Roslindale, Stoughton, Watertown, Wellesley, and West Roxbury, and neighboring communities in Massachusetts. The non-medical assistance Visiting Angels Newton/Canton provides can significantly impact your loved one’s happiness and quality of life. Call us at (617) 795-2727 to book a free in-home consultation with one of our knowledgeable case managers today!
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Senior home care services are invaluable to older adults and their families. Professional in-home caregivers provide meaningful companionship and socialization, helping seniors age in place safely and comfortably. Families are assured that their senior loved one is receiving dedicated and compassionate care from a qualified responsible professional. Misconceptions about in-home personal care do exist and may prevent the elderly and their families from considering this service. Here are four common senior home care myths and facts you need to know. Myth: Senior home care is low-quality compared to nursing home care. Fact: Visiting Angels Newton/Canton’s certified HHA and CNA caregivers undergo comprehensive background checks. They have the opportunity to participate in robust training on topics that include fall prevention, home safety, dementia care, and internal policies and procedures. Visiting Angels’ caregivers are fully focused on their senior client’s needs — whether those requests include personal care assistance, light household tasks, or companionship. A Visiting Angels caregiver will get to know a senior loved one, making it easier to identify changes or concerns and update the family. In contrast, nursing home staff typically care for several residents during each shift and may not have time to provide meaningful companionship to each resident. Living in a nursing home is also associated with a greater risk of contracting colds, flu, COVID-19, gastrointestinal viruses, and other contagious illnesses when compared to one-on-one personal care in the home. Myth: Aging in place isn’t safe. Fact: Visiting Angels Newton/Canton offers a comprehensive Fall Prevention Program, which includes a home safety walk-through and fall risk assessment. Our case managers will identify tripping hazards, poorly lit areas, and bathroom/kitchen risks and suggest modifications. Our well-trained caregivers help seniors with mobility concerns navigate their home safely and reduce the risk of accidents or injuries. Caregivers also keep seniors safe by helping them with light housekeeping duties, transportation, errands, and meal preparation. Myth: In-home care is only for people who are very sick.
Fact: Home care is for any older adult who wants to remain independent and stay at home as long as possible. Professional in-home caregivers can provide the full spectrum of non-medical, supportive senior care — including assisting seniors who need companionship to prevent social isolation and managing unique personal care needs. They often serve as the hands and feet of their client to help them accomplish what they want to do. Myth: Home care means giving up independence. Fact: The thought of losing independence is scary for anyone. But hiring an in-home caregiver doesn’t mean an older adult is losing independence — in fact, it means the opposite. Professional home care enables seniors to maintain independence and provides them with the assistance they need to continue living safely at home. Visiting Angels’ caregivers pride themselves on helping seniors maximize their abilities and providing them a sense of purpose and control over their care. Although a caregiver may make recommendations to enhance quality of life, seniors and their families have the final say on the home care plan. Questions? Hopefully, we have debunked some of the myths about home care services. If you are planning for a loved one’s future care or have an immediate need for in-home care, contact Visiting Angels Newton/Canton for an in-home, no-cost, no-obligation assessment. Our case managers will discuss your loved one’s specific situation, answer your home care questions, recommend a plan to provide the level of care that will meet your senior’s needs — and dispel any myths you may have heard about home care.. About Visiting Angels Newton/Canton Visiting Angels Newton/Canton MA has been providing superior quality at-home care services for seniors and adults with disabilities for over eighteen years. Countless families have benefited from our private duty care, respite home care, companion care, live-in and 24/7 home care, dementia and Alzheimer’s care, transitional aid, and at-home living assistance in Needham, Dedham, Brookline, Watertown, Norwood, Roslindale, Upper Back Bay, Natick, Wellesley, Newton, Stoughton, Canton, Jamaica Plain, Westwood, and neighboring communities. As a result of our exemplary home care service, Visiting Angels Newton/Canton has won the Best of Home Care Leader in Excellence Award; the Best of Home Care Provider of Choice Award; and the Best of Home Care Employer of Choice Award from the national client satisfaction survey firm, Home Care Pulse, for six years. We have been honored to receive the Boston Globe’s Top Places to Work award for seven years and one of the ten best places to work in Massachusetts in 2021 based on diversity and inclusion. Our dedicated and well-trained caregivers love their HHA and CNA caregiver jobs. A stroke is a frightening and life-altering experience for seniors and their families. Depending on the severity of the brain attack, a stroke survivor may face difficulties with mobility, vision, speech, swallowing, emotions, cognitive functioning, and performing everyday tasks. When this occurs, it’s essential to have a home care plan to keep your senior safe. After discharge from a hospital, a post-stroke plan may include hiring a non-medical in-home personal caregiver to provide long-term assistance with daily tasks such as:
How Can Caregivers Help Stroke Survivors Stay Safe at Home? Visiting Angels’ professional caregivers use stroke-specific training to understand signs and symptoms while providing non-medical, comfort-focused dedicated support. Caregivers can contribute to senior safety by:
Reduce Hospital Readmission When a loved one has suffered a stroke, professional senior care services can help significantly. In-home professional caregivers will support stroke survivors and reduce stress for family caregivers. Visiting Angels provides a “Ready, Set, Go Home” program that helps seniors successfully transition home after hospitalization through a customized approach that begins at the hospital. The program also includes home visits to promote a safe recovery by lowering the risk of hospital readmissions related to falls and other accidents. If your loved one needs in-home care following a stroke, Visiting Angels’ case managers are available to discuss the care required, set up a free in-home consultation, and work on a care plan with you. About Visiting Angels Newton/Canton Visiting Angels Newton/Canton MA is an award-winning home care agency providing high-caliber in-home care services for seniors and people with disabilities for over eighteen years. Countless families have benefited from our at-home living assistance, senior companion support, in-home respite care, personal care, live-in and 24-hour home care, dementia, and Alzheimer’s care, transitional aid, and in-home elder care services in Brookline, Watertown, Stoughton, Natick, Wellesley, Dedham, Needham, Canton, Jamaica Plain, Newton, Norwood, Roslindale, Upper Back Bay, Westwood, and neighboring communities in Massachusetts. The non-medical assistance provided by Visiting Angels Newton/Canton home care can significantly impact your loved one’s happiness and quality of life. Nobody enjoys being admitted to the hospital. Whether it’s an overnight visit or an extended stay, the time away from the comforts of home can negatively affect a senior’s physical and mental health. Readmittance soon after discharge from the hospital is difficult for seniors and their loved ones. Unfortunately, this scenario is a sad and familiar reality for many individuals over 65. Roughly 20% of seniors on Medicare end up back in the hospital within 30 days of their last visit due to preventable factors such as:
Reduce hospital readmission risks by learning what questions to ask and understanding why professional in-home care can be vital for seniors after a stint in the hospital. Questions to Ask During a Hospital Discharge
The hospital discharge practice often feels onerous, and seniors and their caregivers may leave confused. A smooth process — and getting clear instructions — can help reduce the odds of hospital readmission. Here are some questions to ask before your senior loved one leaves the facility: What do I need to know about their condition before discharge? Make sure you get all information about your loved one’s condition from the hospital staff. Understand what they have been diagnosed with and what kind of care they received in the facility. Learn which symptoms will require follow-up from a medical professional. Are there any changes to medication? Medication errors are one of the main reasons seniors get readmitted to the hospital. Ask the hospital staff to provide you with a list of prescribed medications. Make sure you understand the dosages and recommended times. Also, confirm which medications your loved one should no longer take. What upcoming appointments are needed? Get a list of upcoming medical appointments and mark them on your calendar. Follow-up appointments will help a doctor confirm recovery is on track and prevent a return trip to the hospital. If possible, try to attend these appointments with your loved one. What additional support is recommended? Many seniors need non-medical support — such as help with mobility, bathing or dressing, and other household tasks — following a hospital stay. Ask hospital staff what kind of in-home care support your loved one requires. Also, find out what tasks they should do on their own. Not being able to do these tasks could be a sign of worsening health. Can the hospital provide written, step-by-step discharge instructions? Make sure to get clear, easy-to-understand, documented instructions from the hospital before discharge. If you can’t comprehend the instructions, review them with the staff. Make copies so both you and your loved one have the same information and, if necessary, rewrite them so they can be easily followed. In-Home Care Program for Seniors After a Hospital Stay Many family caregivers underestimate the support needed for seniors to continue on their road to recovery. As a result, the care at home may end with a return to the hospital or an emergency room. With proper support and planning, you can reduce the risk of re-hospitalization. Consider enrolling in the Visiting Angels Newton/Canton’s From Hospital/Rehab to Home Program for extra assistance. This specialized service helps seniors transition from a hospital to a home setting safely and effectively, enabling your loved one to recover comfortably in familiar surroundings. Experienced caregivers will provide seniors with:
Schedule a free care consultation to discuss your loved one’s needs during and following a hospital stay. About Visiting Angels Newton/Canton Visiting Angels Newton/Canton MA has been providing high-caliber in-home care services for seniors and people with disabilities for over eighteen years. Countless families have benefited from our companion care, personal home care, live-in and 24/7 home care, dementia and Alzheimer’s care, fall prevention, respite support, transitional aid, and at home care services in Wellesley, Natick, Dedham, Needham, Newton, Watertown, Brookline, Stoughton, Canton, Jamaica Plain, Norwood, Roslindale, Upper Back Bay, Westwood, and neighboring communities. As a result of our exemplary home care service, Visiting Angels Newton/Canton has won the Best of Home Care Leader in Excellence Award; the Best of Home Care Provider of Choice Award; and the Best of Home Care Employer of Choice Award from the national client satisfaction survey firm, Home Care Pulse, for six years. We have been honored to receive the Boston Globe’s Top Places to Work award for seven years and one of the ten best places to work in Massachusetts in 2021 based on diversity and inclusion. Our dedicated and well-trained caregivers love their HHA jobs and CNA jobs. In any new relationship, there is an adjustment period. A relationship between your senior loved one and a new caregiver is no different. It may take some time to develop. It can be a little awkward for your senior loved one and a new professional caregiver to get used to each other. A good and trusting relationship takes time to develop. But this is an integral part of your loved one’s life and hitting the ground running is essential. Follow these tips, and you can set the foundation for a successful and long-lasting connection. Involve everyone in the family
Setting caregivers up for success starts before you meet them or contact a home care agency. This is a big decision in the life of your loved one and yours. This person will spend time alone with your senior in their home, so you need to gather the whole family or everyone involved in their care and include them in the decision. Then ask yourselves some questions: What are your senior loved one’s home care needs? Is it medical care? If so, in-home assistance may not be the right option. Does your loved one need a little help around the home with housework? Do they need support with personal care like bathing and getting dressed, or even just getting around the house? Does Mom or Dad require companionship? Isolation in seniors can often lead to further difficulties. Make a list of your loved one’s needs and be ready to share them with the agency so you can determine what kind of care you need. How often does your loved one need in-home care? Does Mom or Dad need someone to visit every day? Would a few hours a week be enough to help your loved one with what they need? Would morning shifts be more appropriate, or would it be better to schedule night visits? Hiring a professional caregiver to help can give you a much-needed break. But leaving your loved one can give you a sense of guilt: It shouldn’t. Be honest with yourself about what you need and communicate your requirements to your family and home care agency. Talk to Your Loved One Remember that talking to an elderly loved one about bringing in a professional caregiver can be an emotive topic. Your mom or dad may be fiercely independent, and it can be hard to bring this person around to the idea of daily assistance. For more help, check out these tips on talking to a parent about care. Consult the Professionals Once you have worked out what your loved one’s requirements may be, it’s time to contact an agency. Agencies should offer a free consultation. They can talk to you about your loved one’s needs and whether they align with what the agency can offer. The agency should give you an estimate of the cost of home care services in Greater Boston, and they may also be able to provide you with some advice on options available for funding in-home care. Choosing the Right Caregiver Once you’ve identified an agency, here are questions to ask when considering a caregiver: Is this caregiver’s personality compatible with your loved one? Talk to the caregiver to assess — you know your loved one best. This will be an essential person in your loved one’s life, and ensuring compatibility is vital. Do this caregiver’s skills and experience align with what your loved one needs? If your loved one has dementia and one caregiver has professional training in caring for seniors with dementia, that’s a solid match. If you’re worried about your loved one falling, look for a caregiver with a fall-prevention qualification. Does this caregiver’s availability match your loved one’s schedule? Availability can easily be overlooked. If your loved one needs assistance in the morning and the caregiver only works evenings, that won’t work. If your loved one requires care five days a week and the caregiver is fully booked on three of those, you’ll need alternative options. Develop a Home Care Plan The best home care agencies will take your concerns and use them to build a care plan. Be clear about what you will be doing as a family and what you expect from this caregiver. Make sure everyone involved in support of the senior knows their role: If everyone knows their responsibilities, then you can ensure that your loved one’s care is as seamless as possible. Introduce Your Loved One to the Caregiver Arrange a meeting between your loved one and the caregiver. Be there to introduce them and to help them bond. When your loved one seems settled, leave them to get to know each other and go to the kitchen or somewhere else out of the room. Your loved one will know that you’re close if they are not comfortable, but you’ll also give them space to bond. Communicate Caring for your loved one is now a shared responsibility. It is essential to keep the agency and professional caregiver abreast of any changes you’ve seen in the health and behaviors of your loved one, and they should do the same with you. Take advantage of their training and experience: They may pick up on subtle differences you may not notice. That’s when you know you’ve genuinely retained superior home care. If It’s Not Working, Act Give it a short time and see how things go. Talk to your loved one. Is Mom or Dad happy? Are they receiving the help they need? If it’s not working out for your loved one, contact your care manager and discuss your concerns. There are times when a caregiver can be given additional training and guidance to improve their ability to provide the best support possible. Inform your care manager if a change in caregiver is clearly necessary so they can arrange to introduce someone new to your loved one, you, and your family. This could be a long-term relationship for your loved one, and it must be with the right person. About Visiting Angels Newton/Canton Visiting Angels Newton/Canton MA has been providing high-caliber in-home care services for seniors and people with disabilities for over eighteen years. Countless families have benefited from our private duty care, companion care, respite support, dementia and Alzheimer’s care, live-in and 24/7 home care, transitional aid, and home care services in Wellesley, Natick, Newton, Watertown, Brookline, Dedham, Needham, Stoughton, Canton, Jamaica Plain, Norwood, Roslindale, Upper Back Bay, Westwood, and neighboring communities. As a result of our exemplary home care service, Visiting Angels Newton/Canton has won the Best of Home Care Leader in Excellence Award; the Best of Home Care Provider of Choice Award; and the Best of Home Care Employer of Choice Award from the national client satisfaction survey firm, Home Care Pulse, for six years. We have been honored to receive the Boston Globe’s Top Places to Work award for seven years and one of the ten best places to work in Massachusetts in 2021 based on diversity and inclusion. Our dedicated and well-trained caregivers love their HHA jobs and CNA jobs. |
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